The first session is called the intake session. During this session I ask my clients a variety of
questions to best understand what brings them into counseling, and how I can be helpful to
them and finding resolution to their issues. The next session is called the treatment planning
session. During this time, we will spend roughly half the session identifying the goals you would
like to work on during our time together. The second half of the session we will start the
therapy process. I may ask you, where would you like to start? This will give you an opportunity
to decide what issues you would like to discuss first. In my opinion one of the most important
aspects of the therapy process is building rapport between myself and the client. I find it
essential the client develops a level of trust in the therapeutic relationship. Based on my
experience it takes about 4 to 5 sessions for the client to develop trust for the therapist. I will
give you full autonomy to discuss what you want in therapy. There is no specific time frame that
you are required to discuss the deeper more difficult topics. You are given full control of what
we discuss when we discuss it. If therapy is working you will feel comfortable to share and
discuss those more difficult topics.
I practice from a cognitive behavioral approach. I believe mental distress stems from unhelpful
thinking. When we are feeling anxious and depressed our thinking around the issues tends to
be the problem, and that is what I find helpful to focus on. Sometimes you may hear me say is
that rational or irrational? I also like to teach a variety of coping skills that I find helpful for
dealing with stressful situations such as deep breathing techniques and meditation practices.
Another skill like find important is called thought stopping. I will help you recognize when you
are experiencing unhelpful thinking and teach you to change your thought patterns. Most
importantly I will help you build a healthy relationship with yourself. Try not to be too hard on
yourself today. Try to be compassionate with yourself today, and treat yourself the way you
would treat other people.